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October 15, 2006

Priorities: The Importance of Knowing How to Live "College"

I'm not sure if that title makes a WHOLE lot of sense, but I'm just gonna put in my two cents about what's really important in life... Grades are NOT so important that you should wall yourself off from people so that you don't have any distractions, but they are important enough to do homework on a Friday night every once in a while. In the same token, friends and family and your ties to them are VERY, VERY important, and you don't want to sully those waters but letting a lust for success overwhelm your life. It is not the end of the world if you don't have your hand in every club or get an A on every test!!! When it's time to crack down, crack down, but the rest of the time, keep it balanced between a happy, fulfilled future and the people you ineviably want to share it with. I know that I've neglected my friends since coming to college, even my friends here, and my family see me only when I'm breezing by them here or there at home. These people are IMPORTANT!!!!!!!!! They've helped get you to where you are. You'd be a different person without them, and while you can't let anything stand in the way of your dreams, don't let them just fall by the wayside. I know that I surely need to spend more time with my family, but in the hullabaloo of school, work, clubs, grades, future, pressure, uncertainties, your family's often the first thing you push aside, b/c they're a constant in your life... I don't know... It's just something to think about...
I LOVE YOU, READERS!!!!!!!!

October 12, 2006

Some actual stuff about Albright

You know, I spend a LOT of time on here talking about just... feelings... and stuff, so... well... actually... WHY CHANGE IT NOW!!! Your college experience is all about how you handle the things that are thrown at you, so if I can prepare you for even a fraction of that, then you 'll just be that much more prepared... or something to that effect...

We had a speaker here, I don't remember if I told you about him, but his name was Andres Lara. His claim to fame was that he was homeless at 16 and then a millionaire at 26, but there's so much more to him than just his success. He's just a deeply spiritual individual, who taught me something very important that I've only now begun to apply to my life:
"When you do something you love... the amount of work you do becomes
insignificant, when you do
something you don't love ....the amount of work you do becomes very
significant." -Andres Lara

College isn't about being involved "in title" in 5,000 different clubs. It's about finding a few that you truly love and are passionate and dedicating yourself to them. I'm the "Jack-of-all-Trades" type, who has to do everything under the sun, but I'm learning to limit it to the essentials, although you CAN'T BACK OUT ON A COMMITMENT WHEN OTHER PEOPLE ARE COUNTING ON YOU!!!!!! [someone forward that message to my friend back home, but be kind about it!] Things get rough, but sometimes you can't be selfish, and you have to give a little extra to do what's right and for the best of the group. You may not care about the group, but SOMEONE is putting one heck of a lot of work into it, so you could at LEAST stick it out!
My arms are burning right now from practicing our marching and playing for an hour tonight for the Homecoming Parade this weekend, so I must say good night! I leave you with the motto of the Alpha Phi Omega co-ed service fraternity, of which I am pledging [we picked our Bigs tonight!!!!! I'm sooooooo excited!!!!!!]:
"Be a leader, be a friend, be of service!" -APhiO
In leadership, friendship, and service,
Good night, and God bless!

October 9, 2006

Albright Outreach

This weekend was CRIZZAZY!!! I went home for Fall Break, to my small town of Pen Argyl, PA, and I've managed to see Albright people not one, not two, but THREE days this weekend!!! I saw someone who lives on my floor at a football game, an English classmate at a band competition the next night, and then TWO of my choir-mates at a festival where I went to donate blood!!!!!!!!!! It was insane!!! It just goes to show that the bridges you build at Albright truly do stretch all over! Good night, and God bless!

October 6, 2006

Dawn of Fall Break

I can't believe that I'm almost HALFWAY through my first semester of COLLEGE!!!!!! It's just flying by, and I feel like it's leaving me in the dust, because when we come back from Fall Break, we're going to be right on the heels of the Midterms, and I just feel like there's SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much left to be done!!!! So there were these voluntary mental health screenings today in the Gable Health Center (+ if you went you were entered in a drawing for a $50 gas gift card, and who doesn't love free gas?), so I went... and it turns out that I don't really exist and life as I know it is fake, so why am I blogging?

BUT SERIOUSLY, I found out that I'm borderline for anxiety disorder with some depressive tendencies... intriguing, but that's just the college life. I mean, of course I've felt worried and overwhelmed in the same time span as feelings of getting more than normal amounts of work done. I'M A STRESS WORKER!!!!!!! Even if you don't do better under stress, as a college student, or even as a student in general, when you're worried about something, you're going to work to feel more comfortable about it, RIGHT?!? I don't know, but it just seemed a little skewed to me... In the same boat, I went to this event today (or yesterday since it's almost 3 in the morning), a nationally-recognized speaker by the name of Andres Lara (check him out at www.thecubanguy.com), but, while very intriguing and fun and all, it just didn't reach me, personally, in the way that it should have. I mean, it's good if you're on the track towards a goal, or are feeling hopeless, b/c it'll lift you up and put you back on the path to your dreams and future successes, but my problem is that I'm so conflicted about where I actually WANT to go in my life! I thought I knew, but now I'm kind of unsure...
One thing I do know, however, is that I thoroughly enjoyed the panel debating evolution and intelligent design with heavy focus on darwinism the night before. It just rekindled my love of the sciences. It was really fascinating how the different disciplines: history, poli-sci, philosophy, religious studies, education, and even drama were represented on the panel, which just goes to show how Albright's "Different Way of Thinking" lies in its unique understanding of interdisciplinarity of subjects. It was just mind-blowing the depth of knowledge these individuals possessed on a topic that one would think would be rather limited to science fields. These aren't just some people with fancy titles reading out of dusty textbooks. They are enlightened individuals who are looking to further the understanding of their own field through the manipulation and understanding of other fields and viewpoints. I was blown away, and thank all of the professors for their insights on the topics.
I just thought that it's also VERY important to document my pledging of Alpha Phi Omega, the National Service Fraternity that I believe I talked about a little before. I'm a pledge now, under the rules and regulations of the organization, gaining new knowledge of leadership and service while expanding on old. I love all of the brothers (don't let the name fool you, it's co-ed, and they're mostly women), and am anxious to work with my pledge class on all of the up-and-coming service events they have scheduled! I leave you with a quote about service, involvement, and action from Mr. Andres Lara, whose new book you should all check out to inspire you to act: How to stay motivated during difficult times. I hope it inspires you to G.O.Y.A. (Get Off Your Anatomy) and take action; "If you think that moving forward's going to be... painful, then try turning back!" (Andres Lara). So simple, and yet it speaks volumes. Never fall back on old bad habits, because the definition of insanity is to repeat the same action over and over and expect different results. Good night, God bless, and trust yourself!

October 2, 2006

Excuses

The old adage goes: "Excuses are like butts, everyone has one."

I seem to have been making up a lot of excuses lately: my grades are low b/c I've been busy, I've been busy b/c I can't say "No," I can't say "No" b/c people need me... I spend more time making up excuses than I do making up the work I've been missing or working on my grades! Now, I'm not gonna lie, I'm probably not going to blog everyday like I said I was gonna try to do, but that's b/c I never just spend the 5 minutes that I say I'm gonna spend on blogging. It turns into a half-hour affair! I just don't have that kind of time right now! On Sunday, I became an official pledge in the Alpha Phi Omega, co-ed, service fraternity. I'm pretty sure that it's the only fraternity on campus that first-semester freshmen can pledge, and you can be in any of the other fraternities as a member as well, which is good, because they're all a great opportunity to meet new people and try new things. Service is my life. My mother's always taught me to "Pay it Forward," that I should pass on all of the blessings in my life to others so that they can pass them on, perpetuating this endless chain of charity and brotherly love. Needless, to say, I felt that a Service Fraternity was the perfect place for such and endeavor. Well, I'm going to keep this one brief, b/c I'd like to catch up on some Z's. Good night, and God bless!